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November 30, 2022

The Mistake of Accepting a Counter Offer from Your Boss

Post By:
Debra Wheatman
In-House Contributor
Careers Done Write
Guest Contributor:

In this “candidate’s job market”, it is not unusual for people to be juggling multiple job offers at once. It is also not unusual for candidates to be presented with counter offers when they give notice that they are leaving their current company. While a counteroffer may be tempting at the moment, entertaining it is almost always a critical career mistake, and here’s why.

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Employers often make counter offers in moments of panic. “We can’t find any candidates for the positions we already have open! We can’t afford to lose her right now!” However, accepting a counter offer fundamentally upends your relationship with your company and your manager. You are now the one who is known to want to leave. This can put you at a disadvantage for growth opportunities as well as during times of restructure and cutbacks. 

In addition, your company may only be making the counter offer to buy themselves time. Time to do what? Search for your replacement. The Society of Human Resources Management (SHRM) estimates that 57% of people who accept counter offers will leave their employer within 18 months. Many of those departures are not initiated by the employee.

And believe it or not, none of these are the most significant reason to reject a counter offer.

Most importantly: you obviously explored opportunities outside of your current organization for a reason. It could be the work, the culture, the compensation, or the industry. 

The only thing that changes when you accept a counter offer is the compensation. And that brings up an excellent, salient point: Why didn’t your employer pay you what you were worth before? You had to scare them with the thought of your departure for them to pay you the wage you want and deserve. Do you want to work for a company that only values you when you want to leave them? 

A counter offer will only address compensation issues. It will not magically improve the role, culture, or team. You should be valued for the benefits you bring to any organization and be paid fairly in exchange for your services. 

Ultimately, a counter offer is a knee-jerk reaction to a deeper problem. Accepting a counter offer will not solve the underlying issues you have with your current role. We know from data gathered from exit interviews across industries that people do not typically cite compensation alone as a reason for leaving a current role. Rather, it’s the manager, the culture, a feeling that someone’s work is unappreciated, or lack of recognition for contributions made to the business that drives people out. 

So don’t entertain that counter offer! Instead, research companies from the standpoint of their culture and reputation, and find a role and team that best fits you. You are very likely to get a significant salary bump, too.